themvstomWhat's the difference?

Quick tell: them is a pronoun, tom is an adjective, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“them” is a pronoun and “tom” is an adjective - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#15,759
“them” frequency rank
#2,521
“tom” frequency rank
18280
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature them tom
Definition Personalpronomen 3. Person Plural Objektform: ihnen, sie ohne Inhalt; leer

Where the spellings diverge

Shared letters are muted; the letters that actually set them and tom apart are highlighted. They share 2 letters in sequence, which is exactly why the eye skips the difference.

4 ch
them
3 ch
tom

Spelling & Dictionary Insight

them and tom form a confusable pair in the German index, two distinct headwords that are easily confused because they look alike, sound alike, or both. They differ by 1 letter(s) in length - close enough that the eye skips over the difference, far enough that meaning fully diverges. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 18280, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

them is recorded at frequency rank #15,759, classified as apron, pronounced [ðɛm]. tom is at rank #2,521, tagged as anadj, pronounced [tum].

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 18280, this pair ranks #1,919,728 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Frequency comparison

them#15,759
tom#2,521

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list

Frequently Asked Questions

Can "them" and "tom" be used interchangeably?
No, "them" and "tom" have distinct meanings and cannot be swapped without changing the meaning of a sentence. Understanding the specific definition and context for each word is essential for correct usage.

Remembering them vs tom

The fastest way to pick the right one every time.

  • Check the role first: if you need a pronoun, it's “them”; for an adjective, it's “tom”.
  • See each word in full, definition, IPA, etymology and its other confusables. Full “them” entry
  • Browse more pairs most likely to be confused. Most confusable

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list FrequencyWords open word-frequency list