TamvsthemTell them apart

Quick tell: Tam is a name, them is a pronoun, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“Tam” is a name and “them” is a pronoun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#32,801
“Tam” frequency rank
#15,759
“them” frequency rank
48560
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature Tam them
Definition männlicher Vorname Personalpronomen 3. Person Plural Objektform: ihnen, sie

Where the eye mixes Tam and them

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 2 letters in sequence.

3 ch
Tam
4 ch
them

Look-alike desk: Tam vs them

These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: Tam is [tam] while them is [ðɛm]. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they differ by 1 letter(s) in length, and the parts of speech differ too (name vs pronoun), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 48560, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

Tam is recorded at frequency rank #32,801, classified as aname, pronounced [tam]. them is at rank #15,759, tagged as apron, pronounced [ðɛm].

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 48560, this pair ranks #1,243,985 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs - roughly mid-pack for confusability.

Orthographic DNA of Tam vs them

Shared letters: mt. Private to "Tam": a. Private to "them": eh.

"Tam" · 3 letters · shape CVC  ·  "them" · 4 letters · shape CCVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • themhtem · tehm · themm · thhem · thme · tthem

Frequently Asked Questions

Is swapping "Tam" for "them" ever safe?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "Tam" is a name and "them" a pronoun, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
Frequency check: "Tam" vs "them" - which ranks higher?
"them" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #15,759 in our German list, against #32,801 for "Tam". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

After this comparison

Eye-level mix-up between "Tam" and "them" is sorted above. Next: full entries or other pairs that share a letter shape.

  • Full dictionary entry for "Tam" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "them" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #1,243,985 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "Tam" and "them" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "Tam vs taut". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #1,243,985 of 2,006,359 scored German pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list