paramour

/ˈpæɹəmʊə/

//ˈpæɹəmʊə// noun

"paramour" is a 8-letter English headword indexed on PlainSpell.

The verdict

“paramour” is uncommon English (frequency #62,396 among 4,417 “P” headwords), classed as a noun. The kind of spelling people second-guess.

#62,396
frequency rank, English
4,417
“P” headwords

According to Wiktionary data (CC BY-SA, analyzed September 3, 2026) - A person who is the object of one's love, especially in an affair or romance; a lover; also, a sexual partner.

Corpus desk

Index EN-paramour · paramour · English

paramour · rank #62,396 · 0 variants · 0 confusables

  • FREQ-RARE #62,396
  • LEN-LONG 8 letters
  • VOW-4 4 vowels
  • CONFUS-0 No pairs
  • VAR-0 0 variants
  • BOOK-MID 4,417
  • PHOTO-FINISH pangolin

Nearest frequency peer: pangolin (-1 rank slots)

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Desk codes from Wiktionary headword shape, FrequencyWords rank tier, confusable-pair count, generated misspelling depth, letter-cohort book size, and photo-finish peer. Not a difficulty grade.

Long-tail ranks near “paramour”

Sparse band: bars invert rank so rarer forms read shorter

corpus weight

What this shows Long-tail view: where “paramour” sits against similarly uncommon English ranks.

Source FrequencyWords open word-frequency list As of September 3, 2026
Key facts for paramour
PropertyValue
Headwordparamour
LanguageEnglish
Part of speechNoun
IPA/ˈpæɹəmʊə/
Letters8
Frequency rank#62,396
Misspellings tracked0
Confusable pairs0
SourceWiktionary (kaikki.org)

Long-tail rank of “paramour” in English

Word frequency stretches from the small set of words we reach for constantly (left) out to the long tail barely used once in a while (right).paramourfalls in this rarity band:

#1#100#1K#10K#100K
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Scale is logarithmic (each tick is 10× rarer). Rare peers in the same band: “pangolin” (#62,395), “partiality” (#62,398), “painlessly” (#62,393). Among 4,417 “P” headwords, “paramour” is #62,396. Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list.

Rare enough to double-check

paramour is uncommon English at frequency #62,396 among 4,417 “P” headwords, classed as anoun, transcribed /ˈpæɹəmʊə/. Rarity is why readers land here mid-draft. 4 senses are on record.

No misspelling variants are generated for paramour in our index, which points to an orthography that plays by predictable English rules. No confusable counterpart is on file for this word, which usually means its spelling is distinct enough that readers don't reach for a similar-looking word instead.

Etymologically, the entry records: The adverb is derived from Middle English par amour, paramore, paramours (“with sexual desire or love, passionately; in a courteous or friendly manner”), from Anglo-Norman par amur (“in a friendly or willing manner”) and Old French par amur, par amour, para… The correct English form is paramour, spelled P-A-R-A-M-O-U-R.

Definition

  1. 1
    A person who is the object of one's love, especially in an affair or romance; a lover; also, a sexual partner.
  2. 2
    A person (especially someone who is not one's spouse) with whom one has an illicit or secret affair; also (Scotland, US, law), one with whom a married person has an adulterous affair.
  3. 3
    A woman who is the object of a knight's love, and who he fights for.
  4. 4
    God as the object of a person's devotion or love.

Recorded use

Wiktionary examples

These source excerpts show how paramour appears in context. They illustrate usage; the definition above remains the entry’s reference meaning.

  1. No ſolace could her Paramour intreat / Her once to ſhovv, ne court, nor dalliaunce, / But vvith bent lovvring brovves, as ſhe vvould threat, / She ſcould, and frovvned vvith frovvard countenaunce, / Vnvvorthy of faire Ladies comely gouernaunce.
  2. It vvas no ſeaſon then for her [Nature] / To vvanton vvith the Sun her luſty Paramour.

Etymology

The adverb is derived from Middle English par amour, paramore, paramours (“with sexual desire or love, passionately; in a courteous or friendly manner”), from Anglo-Norman par amur (“in a friendly or willing manner”) and Old French par amur, par amour, paramours (“by or through love”) (modern French par amour), from par (“by; through; etc.”) (from Latin per (“by means of, through”), ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *per- (“to go through; etc.”)) + amor, amur (“love”, noun) (from Latin amōrem, the accusative singular of amor (“desire, lust; affection, love”), from amō (“to love”) (possibly ultimately from Proto-Indo-European *h₃emh₃- (“to grasp, seize; to take hold; to touch; etc.”)) + -or (suffix forming abstract nouns)). The noun is from Middle English paramour, paramoure, paramur, peramour (“wife; concubine; mistress; husband; male lover; darling, sweetheart; romantic love; sexual passion; (Christianity) Jesus Christ; the Virgin Mary; divine or spiritual love”), from par amour, paramore (adverb) (see above), possibly from a misinterpretation of to love paramour(s) (“to love passionately”) to mean “to love a beloved person”. The verb is partly from both of the following: * From Middle English paramouren (“to love (someone)”), probably derived from the adverb (see above). The Middle English word is only attested in one (possibly 15th-century) source and does not appear to have been used again until the 17th century; compare William Shakespeare's use of out-paramour in King Lear (written c. 1603–1606): see the 1608 quotation. * Uses from the 17th century onwards are probably derived from the noun.

This word in other languages

Definitions, pronunciation, and etymology for this entry are drawn from Wiktionary via the kaikki.org structured extract (CC BY-SA); frequency ordering uses the FrequencyWords open word-frequency list (2018 English corpus, MIT). See the methodology for how each field is sourced and updated.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you spell "paramour"?
"paramour" is spelled P-A-R-A-M-O-U-R. The IPA pronunciation is /ˈpæɹəmʊə/.
What does "paramour" mean?
As a noun, "paramour" means: A person who is the object of one's love, especially in an affair or romance; a lover; also, a sexual partner.
How do you pronounce "paramour"?
The IPA (International Phonetic Alphabet) transcription for "paramour" is /ˈpæɹəmʊə/. Click the speaker icon on the pronunciation badge above to hear it spoken aloud where audio is available.
What is the origin of the word "paramour"?
The adverb is derived from Middle English par amour, paramore, paramours (“with sexual desire or love, passionately; in a courteous or friendly manner”), from Anglo-Norman par amur (“in a friendly or willing manner”) and Old French par amur, par a... See the full etymology section above for more details.
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Similar English words by spelling shape

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Same letter count

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Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list