Which to use
“them” is a pronoun and “tom” is a noun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.
- #71
- “them” frequency rank
- #1,582
- “tom” frequency rank
- 1653
- confusion score
Side-by-Side Comparison
| Feature | them | tom |
|---|---|---|
| Definition | Those ones. | The male of the domesticated cat, especially if not neutered. |
Where the spellings diverge
Shared letters are muted; the letters that actually set them and tom apart are highlighted. They share 2 letters in sequence, which is exactly why the eye skips the difference.
Spelling & Dictionary Insight
them and tom form a confusable pair in the English index, two distinct headwords that are easily confused because they look alike, sound alike, or both. They differ by 1 letter(s) in length - close enough that the eye skips over the difference, far enough that meaning fully diverges. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 1653, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.
them is recorded at frequency rank #71, classified as apron, pronounced /ˈðɛm/. tom is at rank #1,582, tagged as anoun, pronounced /tɒm/.
Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.
With a confusion score of 1653, this pair ranks #526,968 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.
Frequency comparison
Frequently Asked Questions
Can "them" and "tom" be used interchangeably?
Remembering them vs tom
The fastest way to pick the right one every time.
- Check the role first: if you need a pronoun, it's “them”; for a noun, it's “tom”.
- See each word in full, definition, IPA, etymology and its other confusables. Full “them” entry
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