Which to use
“shame” is a noun and “stare” is a verb - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.
- #2,761
- “shame” frequency rank
- #8,211
- “stare” frequency rank
- 10972
- confusion score
Side-by-Side Comparison
| Feature | shame | stare |
|---|---|---|
| Definition | An uncomfortable or painful feeling due to recognition or consciousness of one's own impropriety or dishonor, or something being exposed that should have been kept private. | To look fixedly (at something). |
Where the spellings diverge
Shared letters are muted; the letters that actually set shame and stare apart are highlighted. They share 3 letters in sequence, which is exactly why the eye skips the difference.
Spelling & Dictionary Insight
shame and stare form a confusable pair in the English index, two distinct headwords that are easily confused because they look alike, sound alike, or both. They share most of their letters but differ in 2 positions - close enough that the eye skips over the difference, far enough that meaning fully diverges. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 10972, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.
shame is recorded at frequency rank #2,761, classified as anoun, pronounced /ʃeɪm/. stare is at rank #8,211, tagged as averb, pronounced /stɛɚ/.
Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.
With a confusion score of 10972, this pair ranks #489,550 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.
Frequency comparison
Frequently Asked Questions
Can "shame" and "stare" be used interchangeably?
Remembering shame vs stare
The fastest way to pick the right one every time.
- Check the role first: if you need a noun, it's “shame”; for a verb, it's “stare”.
- See each word in full, definition, IPA, etymology and its other confusables. Full “shame” entry
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