desirevsdespiseWhat's the difference?

Which to use

“desire” and “despise” are a confusable English pair: similar on the page, but distinct in meaning, check the gloss before you choose.

#2,436
“desire” frequency rank
#14,934
“despise” frequency rank
17370
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature desire despise
Definition To want; to wish for earnestly. To regard with contempt or scorn.

Where the spellings diverge

Shared letters are muted; the letters that actually set desire and despise apart are highlighted. They share 5 letters in sequence, which is exactly why the eye skips the difference.

6 ch
desire
7 ch
despise

Spelling & Dictionary Insight

A purely visual mix-up. desire (/dɪˈzaɪə/) and despise (/dɪˈspaɪz/) are said differently, so reading them aloud is the quickest way to catch the wrong one. On the page they stay close: they differ by 1 letter(s) in length. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 17370, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

desire is recorded at frequency rank #2,436, classified as averb, pronounced /dɪˈzaɪə/. despise is at rank #14,934, tagged as averb, pronounced /dɪˈspaɪz/.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 17370, this pair ranks #451,870 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of desire vs despise

Shared letters: deis. Private to "desire": r. Private to "despise": p.

"desire" · 6 letters · shape CVCVCV  ·  "despise" · 7 letters · shape CVCCVCV

Known mistypes of this pair

  • desireddesire · deisre · desier · desirre · desrie · dessire · dseire · edsire
  • despiseddespise · depsise · desipse · despies · despisse · desppise · despsie · desspise

Frequency comparison

desire#2,436
despise#14,934

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list

Frequently Asked Questions

Can "desire" and "despise" be used interchangeably?
No. They are said differently (/dɪˈzaɪə/ versus /dɪˈspaɪz/) and carry different meanings; reading the sentence aloud is usually enough to catch the wrong one.
Which is more common, "desire" or "despise"?
"desire" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #2,436 in our English list, against #14,934 for "despise". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

Remembering desire vs despise

The fastest way to pick the right one every time.

  • Read both glosses above and match the meaning you intend, only context separates this pair.
  • See each word in full, definition, IPA, etymology and its other confusables. Full “desire” entry
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Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list