Which to use
“dear” is an adjective and “dem” is a pronoun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.
- #1,753
- “dear” frequency rank
- #8,533
- “dem” frequency rank
- 10286
- confusion score
Side-by-Side Comparison
| Feature | dear | dem |
|---|---|---|
| Definition | High in price; expensive. | Nonstandard form of them. |
Where the eye mixes dear and dem
Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 2 letters in sequence.
Visual trap between dear and dem
These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: dear is /dɪə/ while dem is /dɛm/. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they differ by 1 letter(s) in length, and the parts of speech differ too (adjective vs pronoun), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 10286, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.
dear is recorded at frequency rank #1,753, classified as anadj, pronounced /dɪə/. dem is at rank #8,533, tagged as apron, pronounced /dɛm/.
Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.
With a confusion score of 10286, this pair ranks #493,085 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.
Orthographic DNA of dear vs dem
Shared letters: de. Private to "dear": ar. Private to "dem": m.
"dear" · 4 letters · shape CVVC · "dem" · 3 letters · shape CVC
Known mistypes of this pair
- dear ← daer · ddear · dearr · dera · edar
Frequently Asked Questions
Can "dear" and "dem" be used interchangeably?
Which is more common, "dear" or "dem"?
What to do next
Pronunciation already separates them, if the page still looks alike, the dictionary links below settle it.
- Full dictionary entry for "dear" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
- Full dictionary entry for "dem" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
- This pair ranks #493,085 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
- "dear" and "dem" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "dem vs dox". Nearby pair
- Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes
Confusion rank #493,085 of 530,003 scored English pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.