dearvsdemWhat's the difference?

Quick tell: dear is a adjective, dem is a noun, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“dear” is an adjective and “dem” is a noun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#35,457
“dear” frequency rank
#16,107
“dem” frequency rank
51564
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature dear dem
Definition Cher, chère. démonstration d’un produit pour en faire la promotion.

Letter map: dear vs dem

Shared letters muted; letters that set dear and dem apart highlighted. Shared run: 2.

4 ch
dear
3 ch
dem

Part-of-speech tell for dear / dem

Our dataset has no pronunciation recorded for both members, so the reliable separator here is grammatical: dear is anadjective and demanoun. On the page they differ by 1 letter(s) in length. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 51564, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

dear is recorded at frequency rank #35,457, classified as anadj, pronounced \ˈdɪɹ\. dem is at rank #16,107, tagged as anoun.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 51564, this pair ranks #154,077 of 440,172 scored French confusable pairs - roughly mid-pack for confusability.

Orthographic DNA of dear vs dem

Shared letters: de. Private to "dear": ar. Private to "dem": m.

"dear" · 4 letters · shape CVVC  ·  "dem" · 3 letters · shape CVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • dearddear · dearr · dera · edar

Frequently Asked Questions

Can "dear" and "dem" be used interchangeably?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "dear" is an adjective and "dem" a noun, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
Which is more common, "dear" or "dem"?
"dem" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #16,107 in our French list, against #35,457 for "dear". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

What to do next

Pair "dear" vs "dem" is on the table, pick a follow-up below.

  • Full dictionary entry for "dear" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "dem" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #154,077 of 440,172 scored French confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "dear" and "dem" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "dear vs dray". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #154,077 of 440,172 scored French pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list