thatvsthemWhat's the difference?

Quick tell: that is a conjunction, them is a pronoun, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“that” is a conjunction and “them” is a pronoun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#10
“that” frequency rank
#71
“them” frequency rank
81
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature that them
Definition Introducing a clause that is the object of a verb, especially a reporting verb or verb expressing belief, knowledge, perception, etc. Those ones.

Where the eye mixes that and them

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 2 letters in sequence.

4 ch
that
4 ch
them

Spelling & Dictionary Insight

These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: that is /ðət/ while them is /ˈðɛm/. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they share most of their letters but differ in 2 positions, and the parts of speech differ too (conjunction vs pronoun), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 81, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

that is recorded at frequency rank #10, classified as aconj, pronounced /ðət/. them is at rank #71, tagged as apron, pronounced /ˈðɛm/.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 81, this pair ranks #529,921 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of that vs them

Shared letters: ht. Private to "that": a. Private to "them": em.

"that" · 4 letters · shape CCVC  ·  "them" · 4 letters · shape CCVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • thathtat · taht · thatt · thhat · thta · tthat
  • themhtem · tehm · themm · thhem · thme · tthem

Frequently Asked Questions

Can "that" and "them" be used interchangeably?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "that" is a conjunction and "them" a pronoun, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
Which is more common, "that" or "them"?
"that" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #10 in our English list, against #71 for "them". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

What to do next

You've compared "that" and "them". Here's where to go from here.

  • Full dictionary entry for "that" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "them" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #529,921 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "that" and "them" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "that vs tuft". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

PlainSpell is a reference corpus, not spelling advice. Verify unusual forms in context.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list