mayvsmyWhich spelling fits?

Quick tell: may is a verb, my is a pronoun, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“may” is a verb and “my” is a pronoun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#5,226
“may” frequency rank
#1,440
“my” frequency rank
6666
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature may my
Definition obter permissão. Também utilizado quando se deseja fazer um pedido, de maneira cortês. nós

Letter map: may vs my

Shared letters muted; letters that set may and my apart highlighted. Shared run: 2.

3 ch
may
2 ch
my

Part-of-speech tell for may / my

Our dataset has no pronunciation recorded for both members, so the reliable separator here is grammatical: may is averb and myapronoun. On the page they differ by 1 letter(s) in length. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 6666, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

may is recorded at frequency rank #5,226, classified as averb, pronounced /meɪ/. my is at rank #1,440, tagged as apron.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 6666, this pair ranks #67,719 of 75,631 scored Portuguese confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of may vs my

Shared letters: my. Private to "may": a. Private to "my": -.

"may" · 3 letters · shape CVV  ·  "my" · 2 letters · shape CV

Frequently Asked Questions

Is swapping "may" for "my" ever safe?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "may" is a verb and "my" a pronoun, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
Which is more common, "may" or "my"?
"my" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #1,440 in our Portuguese list, against #5,226 for "may". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

After this comparison

You've compared "may" and "my". Here's where to go from here.

  • Full dictionary entry for "may" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "my" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #67,719 of 75,631 scored Portuguese confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "may" and "my" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "maa vs may". Nearby pair

Confusion rank #67,719 of 75,631 scored Portuguese pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list