Which to use
“them” is a verb and “tom” is a noun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.
- #19,418
- “them” frequency rank
- #2,600
- “tom” frequency rank
- 22018
- confusion score
Side-by-Side Comparison
| Feature | them | tom |
|---|---|---|
| Definition | Dire. | Abréviation courante de tom-tom (instrument de percussion). |
Where the eye mixes them and tom
Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 2 letters in sequence.
Why the eye confuses them with tom
These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: them is \θem\ while tom is \tɔm\. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they differ by 1 letter(s) in length, and the parts of speech differ too (verb vs noun), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 22018, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.
them is recorded at frequency rank #19,418, classified as averb, pronounced \θem\. tom is at rank #2,600, tagged as anoun, pronounced \tɔm\.
Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.
With a confusion score of 22018, this pair ranks #360,224 of 440,172 scored French confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.
Orthographic DNA of them vs tom
Shared letters: mt. Private to "them": eh. Private to "tom": o.
"them" · 4 letters · shape CCVC · "tom" · 3 letters · shape CVC
Known mistypes of this pair
- them ← htem · tehm · themm · thhem · thme · tthem
Frequently Asked Questions
Can "them" and "tom" be used interchangeably?
Which is more common, "them" or "tom"?
Useful next steps
Eye-level mix-up between "them" and "tom" is sorted above. Next: full entries or other pairs that share a letter shape.
- Full dictionary entry for "them" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
- Full dictionary entry for "tom" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
- This pair ranks #360,224 of 440,172 scored French confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
- "them" and "tom" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "them vs thug". Nearby pair
- Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes
Confusion rank #360,224 of 440,172 scored French pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.