relajarvsrelajarseWhat's the difference?

Which to use

“relajar” and “relajarse” are a confusable Spanish pair: similar on the page, but distinct in meaning, check the gloss before you choose.

#26,594
“relajar” frequency rank
#18,962
“relajarse” frequency rank
45556
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature relajar relajarse
Definition Aflojar, ablandar, soltar. Debilitarse alguna parte del cuerpo.

Where the eye mixes relajar and relajarse

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 7 letters in sequence. relajar runs 7 letters (CVCVCVC) against relajarse's 9 (CVCVCVCCV) - the length gap alone is often enough to separate them once you know to check it.

7 ch
relajar
9 ch
relajarse

Why the eye confuses relajar with relajarse

A purely visual mix-up. relajar ([relaˈxaɾ]) and relajarse ([relaˈxaɾse]) are said differently, so reading them aloud is the quickest way to catch the wrong one. On the page they stay close: they differ by 2 extra letter(s) - “relajar” sits inside “relajarse”. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 45556, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

relajar is recorded at frequency rank #26,594, classified as averb, pronounced [relaˈxaɾ]. relajarse is at rank #18,962, tagged as averb, pronounced [relaˈxaɾse].

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 45556, this pair ranks #130,790 of 323,831 scored Spanish confusable pairs - roughly mid-pack for confusability.

Orthographic DNA of relajar vs relajarse

Shared letters: aejlr. Private to "relajar": -. Private to "relajarse": s.

"relajar" · 7 letters · shape CVCVCVC  ·  "relajarse" · 9 letters · shape CVCVCVCCV

Known mistypes of this pair

  • relajar ← erlajar · realjar · relaajr · relajarr · relajjar · relajra · reljaar · rellajar
  • relajarse ← erlajarse · realjarse · relaajrse · relajarce · relajares · relajarrse · relajarsse · relajasre

Frequently Asked Questions

Is swapping "relajar" for "relajarse" ever safe?
No. They are said differently ([relaˈxaɾ] versus [relaˈxaɾse]) and carry different meanings; reading the sentence aloud is usually enough to catch the wrong one.
Which is more common, "relajar" or "relajarse"?
"relajarse" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #18,962 in our Spanish list, against #26,594 for "relajar". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

What to do next

Pronunciation already separates them, if the page still looks alike, the dictionary links below settle it.

  • Full dictionary entry for "relajar" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "relajarse" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #130,790 of 323,831 scored Spanish confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "relajar" and "relajarse" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "relajar vs relaje". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #130,790 of 323,831 scored Spanish pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list