stayedvssteamedWhich spelling fits?

Quick tell: stayed is a verb, steamed is an adjective, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“stayed” is a verb and “steamed” is an adjective - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#2,864
“stayed” frequency rank
#18,702
“steamed” frequency rank
21566
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature stayed steamed
Definition simple past and past participle of stay Cooked by steaming.

Where the eye mixes stayed and steamed

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 5 letters in sequence.

6 ch
stayed
7 ch
steamed

Why the eye confuses stayed with steamed

These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: stayed is /steɪd/ while steamed is /stiːmd/. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they differ by 1 letter(s) in length, and the parts of speech differ too (verb vs adjective), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 21566, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

stayed is recorded at frequency rank #2,864, classified as averb, pronounced /steɪd/. steamed is at rank #18,702, tagged as anadj, pronounced /stiːmd/.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 21566, this pair ranks #422,936 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of stayed vs steamed

Shared letters: adest. Private to "stayed": y. Private to "steamed": m.

"stayed" · 6 letters · shape CCVVVC  ·  "steamed" · 7 letters · shape CCVVCVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • stayedsatyed · sstayed · staeyd · stayde · stayedd · stayyed · sttayed · styaed
  • steamedsetamed · ssteamed · staemed · steaemd · steamde · steamedd · steammed · stemaed

Frequently Asked Questions

Is swapping "stayed" for "steamed" ever safe?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "stayed" is a verb and "steamed" an adjective, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
In ordinary English text, does "stayed" or "steamed" show up more?
"stayed" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #2,864 in our English list, against #18,702 for "steamed". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

What to do next

Visual near-miss handled. Browse the word pages or a neighbour when the next look-alike shows up.

  • Full dictionary entry for "stayed" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "steamed" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #422,936 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "stayed" and "steamed" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "steamed vs stewed". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #422,936 of 530,003 scored English pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list