sparedvsstayedTell them apart

Which to use

“spared” and “stayed” are a confusable English pair: similar on the page, but distinct in meaning, check the gloss before you choose.

#12,330
“spared” frequency rank
#2,864
“stayed” frequency rank
15194
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature spared stayed
Definition simple past and past participle of spare simple past and past participle of stay

Where the eye mixes spared and stayed

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 4 letters in sequence.

6 ch
spared
6 ch
stayed

Why the eye confuses spared with stayed

A purely visual mix-up. spared (/ˈspɛɹd/) and stayed (/steɪd/) are said differently, so reading them aloud is the quickest way to catch the wrong one. On the page they stay close: they share most of their letters but differ in 2 positions. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 15194, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

spared is recorded at frequency rank #12,330, classified as averb, pronounced /ˈspɛɹd/. stayed is at rank #2,864, tagged as averb, pronounced /steɪd/.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 15194, this pair ranks #465,485 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of spared vs stayed

Shared letters: ades. Private to "spared": pr. Private to "stayed": ty.

"spared" · 6 letters · shape CCVCVC  ·  "stayed" · 6 letters · shape CCVVVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • sparedpsared · sapred · spaerd · sparde · sparedd · sparred · sppared · sspared
  • stayedsatyed · sstayed · staeyd · stayde · stayedd · stayyed · sttayed · styaed

Frequently Asked Questions

Is swapping "spared" for "stayed" ever safe?
No. They are said differently (/ˈspɛɹd/ versus /steɪd/) and carry different meanings; reading the sentence aloud is usually enough to catch the wrong one.
Frequency check: "spared" vs "stayed" - which ranks higher?
"stayed" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #2,864 in our English list, against #12,330 for "spared". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

After this comparison

Eye-level mix-up between "spared" and "stayed" is sorted above. Next: full entries or other pairs that share a letter shape.

  • Full dictionary entry for "spared" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "stayed" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #465,485 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "spared" and "stayed" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "snares vs spared". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #465,485 of 530,003 scored English pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list