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“marry” and “may” are a confusable English pair: similar on the page, but distinct in meaning, check the gloss before you choose.

#3,637
“marry” frequency rank
#110
“may” frequency rank
3747
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature marry may
Definition To enter into the conjugal or connubial state; to take a husband or a wife. To be strong; to have power (over).

Where the eye mixes marry and may

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 3 letters in sequence.

5 ch
marry
3 ch
may

Why the eye confuses marry with may

A purely visual mix-up. marry (/ˈmæɹ.ɪ/) and may (/meɪ/) are said differently, so reading them aloud is the quickest way to catch the wrong one. On the page they stay close: they differ by 2 letter(s) in length. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 3747, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

marry is recorded at frequency rank #3,637, classified as averb, pronounced /ˈmæɹ.ɪ/. may is at rank #110, tagged as averb, pronounced /meɪ/.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 3747, this pair ranks #521,124 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of marry vs may

Shared letters: amy. Private to "marry": r. Private to "may": -.

"marry" · 5 letters · shape CVCCV  ·  "may" · 3 letters · shape CVV

Known mistypes of this pair

  • marryamrry · marryy · maryr · mmarry · mrary

Frequently Asked Questions

Do "marry" and "may" mean the same thing in a sentence?
No. They are said differently (/ˈmæɹ.ɪ/ versus /meɪ/) and carry different meanings; reading the sentence aloud is usually enough to catch the wrong one.
In ordinary English text, does "marry" or "may" show up more?
"may" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #110 in our English list, against #3,637 for "marry". That is a wide gap, so in ordinary text the rarer spelling is the one worth double-checking.

Useful next steps

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  • Full dictionary entry for "marry" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "may" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #521,124 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "marry" and "may" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "marry vs myrrh". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #521,124 of 530,003 scored English pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list