desiredvsdespisedConfusable pair

Which to use

“desired” and “despised” are a confusable English pair: similar on the page, but distinct in meaning, check the gloss before you choose.

#5,492
“desired” frequency rank
#21,773
“despised” frequency rank
27265
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature desired despised
Definition simple past and past participle of desire simple past and past participle of despise

Letter map: desired vs despised

Shared letters muted; letters that set desired and despised apart highlighted. Shared run: 6. desired runs 7 letters (CVCVCVC) against despised's 8 (CVCCVCVC) - the length gap alone is often enough to separate them once you know to check it.

7 ch
desired
8 ch
despised

Corpus notes: desired and despised

desired and despised are indexed as a confusable English pair. We have no recorded pronunciation or part of speech for both members, so the spelling overlap is what we can show you: they differ by 1 letter(s) in length. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 27265, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

desired is recorded at frequency rank #5,492, classified as averb, pronounced /dɪˈzaɪəd/. despised is at rank #21,773, tagged as averb.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 27265, this pair ranks #380,284 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - roughly mid-pack for confusability.

Orthographic DNA of desired vs despised

Shared letters: deis. Private to "desired": r. Private to "despised": p.

"desired" · 7 letters · shape CVCVCVC  ·  "despised" · 8 letters · shape CVCCVCVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • desired ← ddesired · deisred · desierd · desirde · desiredd · desirred · desried · dessired
  • despised ← ddespised · depsised · desipsed · despiesd · despisde · despisedd · despissed · desppised

Frequently Asked Questions

Do "desired" and "despised" mean the same thing in a sentence?
No. They differ by 1 letter(s) in length, but the dictionary glosses above give them different meanings, so swapping one for the other changes what the sentence says.
Frequency check: "desired" vs "despised" - which ranks higher?
"desired" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #5,492 in our English list, against #21,773 for "despised". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

Useful next steps

Done with this confusable. These links stay specific to "desired" and "despised".

  • Full dictionary entry for "desired" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "despised" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #380,284 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "desired" and "despised" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "defiled vs desired". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #380,284 of 530,003 scored English pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list