coaxedvsconnedWhich spelling fits?

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“coaxed” and “conned” are a confusable English pair: similar on the page, but distinct in meaning, check the gloss before you choose.

#47,536
“coaxed” frequency rank
#35,229
“conned” frequency rank
82765
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature coaxed conned
Definition simple past and past participle of coax simple past and past participle of con

Where the eye mixes coaxed and conned

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 4 letters in sequence. coaxed (CVVCVC) and conned (CVCCVC) run the same length but a different consonant-vowel pattern - the shape difference is usually the fastest tell.

6 ch
coaxed
6 ch
conned

Look-alike desk: coaxed vs conned

A purely visual mix-up. coaxed (/kəʊkst/) and conned (/kɒnd/) are said differently, so reading them aloud is the quickest way to catch the wrong one. On the page they stay close: they share most of their letters but differ in 2 positions. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 82765, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

coaxed is recorded at frequency rank #47,536, classified as averb, pronounced /kəʊkst/. conned is at rank #35,229, tagged as averb, pronounced /kɒnd/.

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 82765, this pair ranks #15,117 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs - among the most confusable pairs.

Orthographic DNA of coaxed vs conned

Shared letters: cdeo. Private to "coaxed": ax. Private to "conned": n.

"coaxed" · 6 letters · shape CVVCVC  ·  "conned" · 6 letters · shape CVCCVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • coaxedcaoxed · ccoaxed · coaexd · coaxde · coaxedd · coaxxed · coxaed · ocaxed
  • connedcconned · cnoned · coned · conend · connde · connedd · ocnned

Frequently Asked Questions

Do "coaxed" and "conned" mean the same thing in a sentence?
No. They are said differently (/kəʊkst/ versus /kɒnd/) and carry different meanings; reading the sentence aloud is usually enough to catch the wrong one.
Which is more common, "coaxed" or "conned"?
"conned" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #35,229 in our English list, against #47,536 for "coaxed". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

What to do next

Eye-level mix-up between "coaxed" and "conned" is sorted above. Next: full entries or other pairs that share a letter shape.

  • Full dictionary entry for "coaxed" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "conned" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #15,117 of 530,003 scored English confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "coaxed" and "conned" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "cased vs coaxed". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #15,117 of 530,003 scored English pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list