femvsfemmeWhich spelling fits?

Quick tell: fem is a num, femme is a noun, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“fem” is a num and “femme” is a noun - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#43,170
“fem” frequency rank
#33,585
“femme” frequency rank
76755
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature fem femme
Definition fünf sich betont feminin gebende Lesbe: Femme

Where the eye mixes fem and femme

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 3 letters in sequence. fem runs 3 letters (CVC) against femme's 5 (CVCCV) - the length gap alone is often enough to separate them once you know to check it.

3 ch
fem
5 ch
femme

Visual trap between fem and femme

These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: fem is [fɛmˀ] while femme is [fɛm]. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they differ by 2 extra letter(s) - “fem” sits inside “femme”, and the parts of speech differ too (num vs noun), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 76755, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

fem is recorded at frequency rank #43,170, classified as anum, pronounced [fɛmˀ]. femme is at rank #33,585, tagged as anoun, pronounced [fɛm].

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 76755, this pair ranks #276,505 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs - among the most confusable pairs.

Orthographic DNA of fem vs femme

Shared letters: efm. Private to "fem": -. Private to "femme": -.

"fem" · 3 letters · shape CVC  ·  "femme" · 5 letters · shape CVCCV

Known mistypes of this pair

  • femme ← efmme · feme · femem · ffemme · fmeme

Frequently Asked Questions

Do "fem" and "femme" mean the same thing in a sentence?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "fem" is a num and "femme" a noun, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
Which is more common, "fem" or "femme"?
"femme" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #33,585 in our German list, against #43,170 for "fem". The two are close in frequency, so neither is a safe default; check the meaning rather than guessing.

After this comparison

Eye-level mix-up between "fem" and "femme" is sorted above. Next: full entries or other pairs that share a letter shape.

  • Full dictionary entry for "fem" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "femme" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #276,505 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "fem" and "femme" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "fem vs firm". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #276,505 of 2,006,359 scored German pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list