DamevsdemTell them apart

Quick tell: Dame is a noun, dem is a determiner, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“Dame” is a noun and “dem” is a determiner - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#2,198
“Dame” frequency rank
#22
“dem” frequency rank
2220
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature Dame dem
Definition Frau [1] Dativ Singular des definiten Artikels der

Where the eye mixes Dame and dem

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 2 letters in sequence.

4 ch
Dame
3 ch
dem

Why the eye confuses Dame with dem

These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: Dame is [ˈdaːmə] while dem is [deːm]. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they differ by 1 letter(s) in length, and the parts of speech differ too (noun vs determiner), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 2220, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

Dame is recorded at frequency rank #2,198, classified as anoun, pronounced [ˈdaːmə]. dem is at rank #22, tagged as adet, pronounced [deːm].

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 2220, this pair ranks #2,002,833 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of Dame vs dem

Shared letters: dem. Private to "Dame": a. Private to "dem": -.

"Dame" · 4 letters · shape CVCV  ·  "dem" · 3 letters · shape CVC

Known mistypes of this pair

  • Dameadme · daem · damme · ddame · dmae

Frequently Asked Questions

Can "Dame" and "dem" be used interchangeably?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "Dame" is a noun and "dem" a determiner, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
Which is more common, "Dame" or "dem"?
"dem" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #22 in our German list, against #2,198 for "Dame". That is a wide gap, so in ordinary text the rarer spelling is the one worth double-checking.

After this comparison

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  • Full dictionary entry for "Dame" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "dem" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #2,002,833 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "Dame" and "dem" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "Dame vs Düne". Nearby pair
  • Recorded mistypes exist for at least one side of this pair, useful when a spell-checker or OCR lands on the wrong form. See mistypes

Confusion rank #2,002,833 of 2,006,359 scored German pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list