daivsdemWhich spelling fits?

Quick tell: dai is a verb, dem is a determiner, so they fill different roles in a sentence.

Which to use

“dai” is a verb and “dem” is a determiner - they look or sound alike but fill different roles in a sentence.

#30,992
“dai” frequency rank
#22
“dem” frequency rank
31014
confusion score

Side-by-Side Comparison

Feature dai dem
Definition 2. Person Singular Indikativ Präsens Aktiv des Verbs dare [1] Dativ Singular des definiten Artikels der

Where the eye mixes dai and dem

Muted = shared; highlighted = the visual trap. They share 1 letter in sequence.

3 ch
dai
3 ch
dem

Why the eye confuses dai with dem

These two trip readers on the page rather than in the ear: dai is [ˈdai] while dem is [deːm]. Spoken aloud the problem disappears. In writing it persists, because they share most of their letters but differ in 2 positions, and the parts of speech differ too (verb vs determiner), which is usually the fastest check. Our composite confusion score for this pair is 31014, derived from the frequency rank of both members and their visual similarity.

dai is recorded at frequency rank #30,992, classified as averb, pronounced [ˈdai]. dem is at rank #22, tagged as adet, pronounced [deːm].

Glosses for this pair are partially populated in our dataset, but the full side-by-side definitions above should still guide you to the right choice.

With a confusion score of 31014, this pair ranks #1,736,502 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs - a relatively easy-to-tell-apart pair.

Orthographic DNA of dai vs dem

Shared letters: d. Private to "dai": ai. Private to "dem": em.

"dai" · 3 letters · shape CVV  ·  "dem" · 3 letters · shape CVC

Frequently Asked Questions

Do "dai" and "dem" mean the same thing in a sentence?
No - they are not even the same part of speech. "dai" is a verb and "dem" a determiner, so a sentence built for one is usually ungrammatical with the other.
In ordinary German text, does "dai" or "dem" show up more?
"dem" is the more common of the two: it sits at frequency rank #22 in our German list, against #30,992 for "dai". That is a wide gap, so in ordinary text the rarer spelling is the one worth double-checking.

What to do next

Pronunciation already separates them, if the page still looks alike, the dictionary links below settle it.

  • Full dictionary entry for "dai" with definition, IPA, and generated misspellings. Word entry
  • Full dictionary entry for "dem" - compare definitions side by side with the headword page. Word entry
  • This pair ranks #1,736,502 of 2,006,359 scored German confusable pairs in this corpus vintage. Corpus statistics
  • "dai" and "dem" also get mixed up with nearby pairs, the highest-scored neighbour is "dai vs duc". Nearby pair

Confusion rank #1,736,502 of 2,006,359 scored German pairs, corpus vintage 2026-09-03, not spelling advice.

Source: Wiktionary (via kaikki.org) Structured Wiktionary extract

Source: FrequencyWords open word-frequency list